Meitalia presses James to have a child on 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way. She wants to be a mother. However, he doesn’t think he can provide for a child like a father should. But will he change his mind and give her what she wants?

90 Day Fiance: Meitalia Questions James About Having a Kid

Meitalia found out shocking news before she and James moved to Indonesia. Her good friend, Adele, told her that her husband doesn’t want to have children. She was shocked because he hadn’t told her. Yet, she didn’t want to bring it up to him until she felt the time was right.

The 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way cast member tells her husband that she talked with their friend before she left for Indonesia. She reveals that Adele told her that he doesn’t want to have a kid. She tells him that it has been on her mind. So, she wants to know why he told their friend and not her.

James tells Meitalia that he is mad that Adele told her that. He explains that he may have told her in passing at some point. He wasn’t expecting her to throw that conversation at him. So, he wasn’t ready for it, and he finds it strange.

Meitalia Tells James Kids Make Relationship Stronger

James tells Meitalia that he hasn’t completely made up his mind about having a kid. However, he is leaning more towards not having children. He feels that the world they live in today is a “toxic place” to raise a child. But he does know it is something she really wants. He knows she will be a “wonderful mother.”

The 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way castmate admits that he loves hanging out with and spending time with children. However, James is afraid. He explains that you can’t stop being a parent once you have a child. At the moment, he feels he can’t give a child a great life.

Meitalia tells James that in Indonesia, you are supposed to have a kid to strengthen your relationship. So, she feels that if they have a kid, it will strengthen their relationship. But he doesn’t believe that they have to have a child to make that happen.

Will 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way Couple Have a Baby?

James asks Meitalia if she would stay with him if he doesn’t want to have children. She tells him it will hurt her because before they got married, they spoke about starting a family. They spoke about having a “mini” them running around the house. And they thought it would be a beautiful thing to see.

The 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way reality star still hasn’t received an answer on whether they will have a kid. If Meitalia’s husband doesn’t want to have children, she will still love him, but she will still want to be a mother.